{"id":244,"date":"2012-05-13T16:58:48","date_gmt":"2012-05-13T14:58:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.abo.fi\/internetcultureandgender\/?p=244"},"modified":"2012-05-13T16:58:48","modified_gmt":"2012-05-13T14:58:48","slug":"natural-and-normal-vs-unnatural-and-not-normal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.abo.fi\/internetcultureandgender\/2012\/05\/13\/natural-and-normal-vs-unnatural-and-not-normal\/","title":{"rendered":"Natural and normal vs. unnatural and not normal"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>After looking at the wheel from Gayle Rubin\u2019s \u201cThinking Sex\u201d article for the just in time #1 assignment, I felt as though 200 words was not enough to really look into the wheel and how it shapes the way society and culture look at sexuality.<\/p>\n<p>I think that culture and society influence each other when looking at sexuality and more specifically when looking at the wheel and how it pertains to views on sexuality. Our cultures shape how our society functions in many different ways. It shapes our societies views on religion, education, equality business, gender, sexuality, the internet and its usage. Sometimes different subcultures have a larger impact on us than our countries overall culture, but it does shape our societal beliefs and views.<\/p>\n<p>In relation to the wheel that Gayle Rubin\u2019s has created, I believe that this is slowly starting to change at least in the younger generations in western cultures. I am from the US, and I think that if someone did a survey of American bachelor\u2019s students, average ages between 18-24, I think that they would find many people saying part of the inside wheel is more abstract and \u201cnot normal\u201d than the views on the outside wheel. If you took a poll of American college professors, they may disagree with their students. I mentioned this would be specific to \u201cwestern\u201d cultures. Among personal finding, most \u201cwestern\u201d cultures do not have as high of an influence by religion in their everyday life. Not to say that the people aren\u2019t religious or don\u2019t practice religion or that it doesn\u2019t have a strong influence in people\u2019s lives, but that \u201cwestern\u201d cultures tend to preach that religion and faith does not have to shape every aspect of your life.<\/p>\n<p>I think that age has a lot to do with the way that we view the wheel, this is a subculture that I don\u2019t think is looked at very often. With each generation thoughts become more liberal and broad. For my grandparents the inner wheel was something that was followed and if you decided to do something in your sexual life that was with the outside wheel, you not only did not talk about it, but probably denied it. For my parent\u2019s generation I think that some of the aspects of the outer wheel became more common place. For example, pornography is not really seen today as an \u201cunnatural\u201d thing. Not only do both sexes enjoy pornography, but many times couples will watch it together. I also think that for my parent\u2019s generation it was not uncommon for aspects of the wheel such as \u201cwith manufactured objects\u201d to be incorporated in their sex lives, however it was still something that you did not talk about openly. Maybe with your closest friends but it was not a common topic of conversation, and you certainly didn\u2019t go around saying that you did these things. For our generation, at least in the American \u201cwestern\u201d culture, I think that most aspects of the outer wheel are very common place. I think that there are a few that you don\u2019t talk about, or boys will to brag to their friends, as if they\u2019re some sort of accomplishment to have done.<\/p>\n<p>I think that this also plays into the fact that as a generation around the world, not just in \u201cwestern\u201d cultures or in the American culture, our ideas are more open and questioning as they will continue to be with each subsequent generation. There are aspects of our lives, sexual and nonsexual that we control, putting aside aspects of our religion or culture to discover who we are, what we want and what we think is normal or not normal because normal changes from not just culture to culture but person to person.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After looking at the wheel from Gayle Rubin\u2019s \u201cThinking Sex\u201d article for the just in time #1 assignment, I felt as though 200 words was not enough to really look into the wheel and how it shapes the way society &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.abo.fi\/internetcultureandgender\/2012\/05\/13\/natural-and-normal-vs-unnatural-and-not-normal\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":183,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-244","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-cyberfeminism"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.abo.fi\/internetcultureandgender\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/244","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.abo.fi\/internetcultureandgender\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.abo.fi\/internetcultureandgender\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.abo.fi\/internetcultureandgender\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/183"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.abo.fi\/internetcultureandgender\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=244"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.abo.fi\/internetcultureandgender\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/244\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":245,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.abo.fi\/internetcultureandgender\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/244\/revisions\/245"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.abo.fi\/internetcultureandgender\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=244"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.abo.fi\/internetcultureandgender\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=244"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.abo.fi\/internetcultureandgender\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=244"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}